Random musing.

Yesterday was a very full day for me. Up at 5:00 a.m. to attend meetings at 6:00 a.m. ---- didn't return home until 5:00 p.m. ---- then back to the church at 6:30 for a fireside ---- returned home just before 9:00 p.m.

Now, don't misunderstand, I'm not complaining. It was a good day, even a great one, albeit long and exhausting.

With Mom gone for part of the week and being left in solitude, I've had a good chance to do some reflective thinking. I am awakened anew to the sensitivity my spirit seems to have. What once seemed like only little things have become jarring of late.

Let me explain. Recently I did some real introspective evaluation of my motives, thoughts, desires etc. I found that I had started to be less than disciplined in my mental processes. I was beginning to conduct my life, my meetings, my thoughts, in a routine manner. I was going through the motions without being as attentive as needed. I was drifting, not paying the price for personal progress. It was a serious jolt when I was assaulted by the realization that the people who have been asked to follow me deserve better.

So, the inner searching began. In order to get more traction, I shut down, as much as possible, all the distractions around me. I turned the radio off in the car in favor of selected cds of uplifting music. I stopped turning the TV on whenever I came into the house. I recharged my practice of reading the scriptures, the talks of the prophets, seers, and revelators and other inspirational literature. I became more earnest in the requests I made in prayer and spent time listening while still on my knees.

I tried to avoid banter and light-minded conversations with others. (Of course, that doesn't exclude humor and light heartedness.) I can't exactly describe it, but I tried to "tighten up" my own speech, ie. no slang, no bantering, no verbal bumping of someone else, no laughs at their expense, nothing that would be considered denigrating or unkind. I even tried to be more precise about the way I speak, saying "should have" instead of "shouldda", pronouncing the "ing" at the end of words, I listened more carefully, looking others in the eyes when they spoke. I made a conscious effort to smile more throughout the day, just a lot of little things.

The results have been surprising. In only a short time I find that I am enjoying myself much more. I feel an inner calm that is restful and rejuvenating. I look forward to the chance to read and contemplate and to have a conversation in prayer. My social associations are more pleasing to me. My mood is more consistently cheerful. I've come to realize, again, that there are levels upon levels of personal progress. The pursuit of that progress is energizing and fulfilling to me. I am renewing my efforts to get to the next level, whatever that may be.

That brings me back to my observation about sensitivity. I am certain that in the past I haven't been as attentive to my spirit's response to my environment as I should be. Little things, that I've not noticed before, are now unsettling to me. Critical, belittling, loud, or coarse conversation; questionable innuendo; potty language; thumping, menacing music, and a host of other minutia are not so trivial as I once supposed. I can feel my spirit cringe when I expose it to things that are unrefined.

In a way, this condition is very inconvenient. If I am to respond appropriately I must change some practices. I cannot participate in certain conversations, some that I might previously engaged in without a second thought. I need to be even more selective about my use of the media. I must be more proactive about influencing my environment. In the event of failure to influence I will have to simply withdraw. That may mean that I will come across as distant or self righteous to some of my friends and associates. As unfortunate as that may be, I believe I will prefer that to the option of losing the inner peace I am beginning to feel.

So, there you have it. Some very personal thoughts spilled out, somewhat clumsily, in words. This kind of exercise always helps me get clarity. Thank you for indulging me.

All my love to my family. You are each more precious to me every day. I miss you when you are gone. I savor the times we are together. As soon as you leave I count the days until we will see you again. I wish I had been a better teacher for you when you were younger and more impressionable. I also wish I had acquired my present sensitivity when I was much, much younger. Ah, to be young again. But, if that were to happen I would want to retain the wisdom of experience. I guess you can't have it both ways.

General Conference was great!

I loved the General Conference. We were able to attend the Solemn Assembly along with Matt and Amanda. It was a memorable experience to be there on such a historic occasion. We had the family together for the weekend, at least those in anything resembling reasonable traveling distance. It is always good to have everyone around the home front again. We certainly missed Marc and Trina and family, Kim and Steve, Ben and Michelle, and Adam and Devri.

We were hoping to have Amanda with us for the weekend to meet some of the rest of the family. Unfortunately, she wasn't feeling well (a lingering case of mono, I am told). It just wouldn't do to have someone thrown into the clamor of our family gathering when they aren't at full strength. It is a daunting task even when you are at your best.

We took tons of pics...I hope Jill will post them for me. It was a great weekend!

See? No one is really paying any attention.

I might be a good thing, if you are really interested, to go to the bottom of the blog and subscribe. That way you will be informed whenever there is a change in content...and you won't miss anything...like you almost did...because you don't visit here that much.

I know, I know, I'm supposed to keep adding things so it is interesting when you return. My blog is kind of like a test pattern on a TV. Oh, never mind. You are all too young to even know what a test pattern is. Anyway, that means things are pretty static most of the time.

I have resolved to do better in the future. I may even get Jill to help me upgrade my technical skills so I can post pictures. However, that creates another dilemna. I'm not in the habit of taking pictures of everything I do. That would be another TV test pattern. You'd just get lots of pix of me in a white shirt, suit, and tie, sitting in some meeting.

Well, what would you expect? That IS my life!

Okay, okay...now you can stop whining.

It really has been too long since I made an entry. So...for anyone (both of you) who really visits here, this is the latest. I really don't mind blogging, but I recognize that this is a visual medium and I just haven't taken the time to master the nuances of pix and video entries. I apologize for the boring text-only content of this blog.

The past few weeks have been quite impressive to me. Some of our very best friends have been sealed in the Temple. It has been a great opportunity to witness these events and to be a tiny part of it. What a privilege to be able to interview them and to sign their recommends!

I've learned some very important things: 1) Sometimes you just have to keep on keeping on even though you are not seeing light at the end of the tunnel. 2) Personal spiritual progress is accelerated when we move forward with faith and make the covenants. Conversely, our personal spiritual progress is slowed when we evade the covenants. 3) If we are left alone to gauge our own spiritual readiness we usually measure ourselves short. 4) Great blessings almost immediately follow after we proceed with faith.

We're also in the middle of bidding some of our best friends farewell as they depart for full-time missionary service. This has been very interesting as well. I've had the privilege of interviewing and recommending them and waiting with them for the calls to come. One of my favorite things to do is stand on the sidelines and cheer the missionaries on during this process. I get really excited for them and I count the days for the call to come and then I count the days until they report to the MTC.

This has been a bit different for me. As I've mentally put myself in their shoes I've come to realize what a sacrifice they are making. These are very capable people, full of faith and unquestionably devoted. Though they are entering into a sacred service, with all the attendant blessings that will inevitably ensue, it is not easy to uproot yourself, even temporarily, and leave dear friends, children and grandchildren and the familiar surroundings of comfortable homes to go to a foreign country, learn a new language and try to adapt a lifetime of routines, habits and expectations to new customs, new foods, new schedules and a way of life that is completely different. I've learned to appreciate these great people even more.

I am really looking forward to the feelings that will come as they are set apart for their callings.

Packed Schedules!!

That has been the most common mode of operation around our place since the last blog. We have had so many important and wonderful events in the past few weeks. As you may know, Matt returned from his mision to Samoa on the Tuesday before Thanksgiving. It was so good to see him again and to hear all about his missionary experiences. It was delightful to see how he has matured and grown into a man of considerable spiritual substance. He still has that faint little smile permanently affixed regardless of the circumstances. It was a wonderful reunion! All of our family together for the first time in nearly ten years!!

Mike and Lyndsi were married in the Logan Temple on November 23rd. They are very, very happy and we are elated to have Lyndsi as an official member of the family. They are living in Logan and plan to attend school full time and work full time as well. All of you know something about life like that.

Adam and Devri were married on December 19th in the Manti Temple. It was our first time to be in the Manti Temple...What a beautiful setting! Adam is still waiting to see if he will receive "the offer" to play football. Several coaches have expressed interest but nothing is formalized. He is still hoping to get an offer from a D1 school. There have been several good offers from D2 schools and some D1AA schools. All of this does nothing to contribute to any feelings of security or permanence. Devri is being wonderfully patient even though they are technically homeless at present. Devri is sweet and good and we are pleased that she let Adam choose her.

We are so grateful to have these two wonderful young women join our family. We earnestly hope that we won't ever embarrass them or make them wonder how such nice girls could get into such a fix. They both fit into our family pretty seamlessly and we are grateful. It is really sweet to watch them relate to each other, to their new husbands, and to the entire family.

It was especially meaningful for us to have all of our children together in the temple at each wedding. At times like this you realize that it is really all about family. We are so very grateful for our children and their companions and the goodness of their lives. We are blessed way beyond merit.

I love this time of year! I love everything about Christmas! I love the music. I love the ambiance of it all. I love the snow. I love the tinge of cold in the air. I love to hear the snow crunch underfoot. I love to walk outside when you are all bundled up with a warm cap and good gloves. I love it when you can exhale frosty breath. I love a crackling fire in the woodstove when it is cold outside. I love to see the delicate patterns of frost and snow on the bare branches of the trees. I love the stunningly brilliant blue sky of winter that always comes after a good snowstorm. I even love to join in the bustle of the holiday shopping crowds. I love to call out a cheery "Merry Christmas" to friends and strangers alike. There is nothing quite like Christmas.

There is another thing I like about Christmas. Throughout the year our most reverent worship is centered on the Savior. In our mind's eye we recall His ministry and the purpose of His mission and try to visualize Him as the Master Teacher, the consummate Priesthood Leader, the ultimate example of perfected man. At Christmas it is different. At Christmas we quietly kneel at a manger and our most reverent worship is centered on a baby...The Baby. And we are reminded that He wants us to become pure and meek and ... childlike.

To each of you who have taken the time to pause here, if only briefly, please know of our love for you. In so many ways, that perhaps you've not realized, you have blessed our lives and we are deeply grateful. I pray that the Peace of this season will permeate your heart and your home. May the blessings of Heaven rest upon you and all those you love.

Ah - to be current, to be relevant...that is the virtue.

Well, it has been far too long since an update..September to be exact. Much has happened since then. We now have two of our family who are counting the days until their marriage. Mike, to Lyndsi Walker, which will occur on November 23rd in the Logan Temple. And Adam, to Devri Dahlsrud, which will take place on December 19th in the Manti Temple. We feel very blessed to have these wonderful young women join our family circle. They both come from great families and are sweet and gentle natured. I hope I can become more like them.

The week of Thanksgiving will be jam packed for us. Matt will return from his mission to Samoa on Tuesday. We will enjoy the Thanksgiving Holiday on Thursday. Mike and Lyndsi will be married on Friday. And Sunday will be Matt's mission report. Our house should be completely full of family and friends for the entire week. We expect to have people bouncing off the walls and there will be roughly1,050 pounds of food of all descriptions consumed in a very short time. We are looking forward to those events.


The Snow College Badgers have been enjoying a very successful football season. Adam has has good success and we are pleased for him. The pictures are from a family outing at a recent game.

Above is Kim, Gae, and I and below are Josh, then Kim and Steve.

Here are some more pictures from the game. I am trying to label each one so you will know who they are. Those in the family will already know...but other visitors might be lost. This is Jill and Courtney...our ever gracious hosts at each game/The next picture is Holly and Trent.










This is Megan...Holly and Trent's oldest









This is Zachary...and I don't know why he always makes a face whenever you point a camera at him.













And this is Jarom...another of Holly & Trent's children. This one is a scrapper. He loves the football games...and any other kind of activity

Update September 2, 2007

I have been gently reminded that a primary purpose of these blogs is to keep a running commentary on the events/thoughts of one's life. I was much surprised to learn yesterday that Devri's* sister has visited this site. She noted that I am not keeping current. I will attempt to be more attentive in the future. Apparently I have now assumed an obligation to my "audience" albeit a very small one.

This past week has been full...again. On Friday I purchased a relatively unused but older Honda ATV for use in the garden duties around the home. I will post some pictures soon. This one has a snow plow and a storage bag/passenger seat for the rear rack. I think it will be fun for Gae and I to "wheel" around the backroads together. Perhaps another trip to Willard Peak this summer? It will be great to have a motorized snow removal device as well. I hope it works as well as I envision. I am certain that it will meet our needs much better than the Suzuki 125 we are using at present. The problem with the Suzuki is that every time you put a box of fruit or vegetables on the back rack (which hangs out beyond the rear axle) it lifts the front wheels up just enough to make steering virtually impossible. The Honda is a 250, which makes the whole machine bigger and more sturdy. The rear rack sits squarely over the rear axle, which should make a big difference. With the added power I believe we will be able to do lots of things that are just not possible with the Suzuki. I guess we are getting to be pretty "campy" now. A friend of mine was recently decrying the antics of the four wheeler crowd allowing that "they are all from Spanish Fork, they swear, drink, chew, and generally tear the h_ _l out of the planet." I hope it will not mar my ministry if I partake. ;>)

We had a fun time watching Adam's game yesterday. The game itself was pretty boring, a 69-0 route of a club team that really didn't have the personnel to play at this level. It is always good to see Adam and spend some time with Court & Jill & Olivia. We took Mike & Lyndsi with us. They are always good company. We enjoyed the day very much.

We noted that Adam and Gae both have broken ribs in about the same spot. Adam broke his ribs in football practice about a month ago. Gae broke hers this week while trying to prune an extra large limb from a peach tree. The limb had broken from the weight of the peaches. She couldn't get enough leverage with her arms so she braced one handle of the pruners against her side and used both hands to bear down. When she felt the snap she realized that it was her rib and not the branch that made that sound. She is mostly comfortable until she gets horizontal. Then it hurts to breathe. Not much rest for her the past couple of nights. Healing will take time and patience. The difficulty is that she has a less-than-ample supply of both.

Now, don't be concerned with the length of this blog. I understand that brief commentary and lots of pictures are what drive this medium. As soon as I become more technologically proficient I will be better as a blogger.

Keep doing the things you know you should.

Dad

* Note of explanation to those feeling lost. Devri Dahlsrud is the sweet girl from Salina that Adam has been dating for quite a while. We were able to meet her family for the first time, at the game. We think Devri is terrific and after meeting her family it is easy to see why.